what does it mean to become
an adult?
some say it's an age
18 perhaps
like the age you turned
today
some say it's a state of mind
an accounting of
our actions a test of
our character
some believe it's
a rite of passage
with touchstone landmarks
along the way
i suspect being an adult
is all of those things
and then some
it means learning to separate
the person
from the behavior
to hold our loved ones
close in our heart
even when we don't agree
with their actions
being big enough to
admit when we don't know
and not being afraid
to own up
to our mistakes
to be selfless enough to
leave our ego on
the shelf even when we
have plenty to brag about
it means learning to
compromise and
understanding that
successful relationships
aren't built on selfishness
but that staying true to
one's authenticity
is vital to success
so, my dear H, as you
enter adulthood today
know this:
life is not easy or simple
yet its beauty can lie
within its complications
pursue your passions
honor your dreams
love with an open heart
be kind and compassionate
admit your mistakes
revel in your accomplishments
respect your partner
shine as a father
walk with pride but
not arrogance
embark on your journey
and embrace
the adventure
